Balancing Autonomy and Safety
Support safer decision‑making while respecting dignity and independence, with tools to navigate risk, worry, and “how much is too much” in everyday situations.
Course Introduction
Learning Intentions
Safety Often Enters Quietly
How the Diagnosis Changes the Weight of These Moments
The Questions That Begin to Surface
Why This Feels So Emotionally Loaded
Holding Off on Quick Conclusions
A Brief Pause
Why Risk Can’t Be Removed Completely
When Safety Advice Feels Absolute
The Difference Between Risk and Harm
Why Eliminating Risk Often Backfires
Reducing Harm Looks Different
Why Families Struggle With This Balance
A Brief Pause
Why Safety Decisions Feel Different From Other Decisions
Moving Away From Single-Question Thinking
Four Things Families Are Often Weighing (Even If They Don’t Name Them)
Why This Way of Thinking Helps
This Isn’t a Formula
Why This Matters Before Looking at Examples
A Brief Pause
Safety Usually Shows Up in Ordinary Situations
1) Moving Around and Getting About
2) Driving and Getting From Place to Place
3) Money, Decisions, and Vulnerability
4) Being Alone and Being With Others
Why These Decisions Rarely Feel Finished
A Brief Pause
Balancing Care and Risk
Not a test — it's a way to practise the thinking!
As dementia progresses, safety questions tend to come closer to the centre of everyday life.
For many families, these concerns don’t arrive as dramatic incidents. They build quietly — a wobble on the stairs, uncertainty about driving, confusion with money, a moment of vulnerability, a growing sense that “we can’t ignore this forever.”
And with that comes a real tension:
This on-demand course is designed to help families navigate that tension in a steadier way.
It doesn’t offer rules or checklists.
It offers a person-centred way of thinking about safety decisions — so you can act practically without defaulting to control, conflict, or unnecessary loss of personhood.
This course is designed for:
You don’t need special knowledge to start. This course is grounded in everyday family life.
What you’ll gain from this course
By the end of the course, you may feel:
This course won’t remove uncertainty — but it can make decisions feel less rushed and less isolating.
What the course covers
In this course, we explore:
We'll look at common, real-life areas where safety dilemmas arise, including:
You’ll also practise the thinking through short, recognisable scenarios (no trick questions — just real-life rehearsal).
What makes this course different
Many existing resources focus on safety through:
Those resources can be helpful — but they rarely support families with the hardest part:
A supportive human voice
You’ll hear short audio reflections from Daphne Noonan, Co-Founder of Person Centred Universe.
These reflections are designed to:
Practical take-home resource
This course includes a downloadable guide, Balancing Autonomy and Safety: A Practical Guide for Thinking Through Real-Life Decisions. It’s designed to help you:
It’s not a checklist.
It’s something you can return to when safety moves from the background into focus.
A gentle close
Safety decisions are rarely perfect.
They’re often “least bad” choices made with care.
This course offers a steadier way to think — so practical action can sit alongside dignity, identity, and relationship.